When I think of fingering, I think of being in the back of a movie theater getting felt up by a high school boy who acted like his finger was a tiny penis. In other words, my early fingering experiences were not good. That said, just because teenage boys and some grown men can fail so miserably at fingering doesn't mean that educated adult human beings can't make it feel really awesome. And in some cases, a preferred sex act. In this age of awkward boob-twisting they're not doorknobs and shower sex that didn't pan out like you'd hoped Does it ever?
Why You Should Try Anal Fingering Before Having Anal Sex
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Despite there being a healthy renaissance for butt play in recent years, backdoor entry is still a deal-breaker for many women — a no-way, no-how, entirely off-limits scenario. Still, more than a third of women For some women, like me, anal sex can be a mind-blowing addition to the bedroom. Anal sex has always been a welcome precursor to vaginal penetration and other below-the-belt play. The key, for me, is to have a patient partner — one whom I trust. Oh, and plenty of lube.
Everything You Need to Know Before Trying Anal Fingering
Whether it's part of foreplay or the main event, fingering can be super pleasurable for people with vulvas—as long as it's done well. Bad digital stimulation isn't just a huge turn-off; it can also be incredibly painful! That's why we spoke with some sex-positive women about how men can up their fingering game.
To begin, put a generous amount of water-based lube on one or two fingertips make sure you replenish the lube often and gently massage the area around the outer rim. Once he's riled up, test the waters by gently sliding just the tip of your middle finger inside. If he clenches his sphincter muscles, which encircle the anal opening, pull your finger out and continue rubbing the outer area to help reduce his tension. Then, try to insert your fingertip again.