Men think differently than woman and speak what they think. As women, we put a whole lot more effort into trying to interpret their words than they ever do in using them. We always assume every word choice has a different meaning and that can get very confusing and complicated quickly and part of that is true. Each word does have a different meaning, but that does not mean that any of them are bad.
As a fat woman, I've experienced the extreme shallowness that exists in our society. I'm speaking from years of experience, and believe me when I say: I'm fat. I often mention that I'm fat to my students and they usually reply, "You're not fat! If you're wondering why I haven't done anything about it, I have!
When you're dating and on the hunt for true love , it's easy to get your spirits dampened. I vividly remember the parade of dudes who seemed far more interested into introducing their penises to my vagina than they did me to their moms. It can definitely feel like men just want sex. But that's because they DO want sex! I consulted with some anonymous men to get their take on the whole "men just want sex" issue, just to give us all a little bit more clarity.